Family Law in BC
Comprehensive, easy-to-read guides on separation, parenting, support, and property in British Columbia.
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A calm, curated library of trusted support — for every part of your separation journey.
Legal Information & Help
Understanding your rights and options
Plain-language Canadian family law resources — for understanding what's involved before you spend on a lawyer.
Legal Aid BC — Family Law
Free guides, fact sheets, and self-help tools for families across British Columbia.
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Official information on separation, agreements, parenting, and going to court.
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Federal information on divorce, support, custody, and family law across Canada.
Visit ResourceJP Boyd on Family Law
A free, plain-language guide to BC family law — written for real people, not lawyers.
Visit ResourceClicklaw BC
Plain-language legal information and free help options across British Columbia.
Visit ResourceAccess Pro Bono — Lawyer Referral
A brief consultation with a lawyer for a small fee — useful for understanding your specific situation.
Visit ResourceBC Family Unbundling Roster
Lawyers who help with specific tasks (like reviewing an agreement) instead of taking on the whole case.
Visit ResourcePeople's Law School
Clear, accessible legal education for everyday British Columbians — no jargon, no pressure.
Visit ResourceMediate BC
BC's leading non-profit for family mediation — connect with trained, supportive mediators.
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Parenting & Co-Parenting
Steady support for kids and parents
Resources to help families communicate clearly, support children, and build steadier routines after separation.
Families Change BC
Gentle, child-centered guidance for parents and kids navigating separation — by the Justice Education Society.
Visit ResourceParenting After Separation Program
BC's free online course supporting separating parents with practical tools to reduce conflict and protect children.
Visit ResourceTriple P Parenting Canada
Evidence-based parenting programs that help families build calmer relationships at every stage.
Visit ResourceAha Parenting
Dr. Laura Markham's gentle, connection-based approach to parenting through stress and family change.
Visit ResourceSesame Street in Communities
Warm, age-appropriate videos and tools to help young children understand and process family change.
Visit ResourceChild Mind Institute
Trusted guidance from child mental health experts on supporting kids through divorce, anxiety, and big emotions.
Visit ResourceFamily Smart
BC-based support for families whose children face mental health or emotional challenges — peer-led and parent-focused.
Visit ResourceMom's House, Dad's House
Isolina Ricci's classic on building a workable two-home life for kids after separation.
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Financial & Planning
Practical tools for the money side
Calm, judgment-free resources for support amounts, budgeting, housing, and rebuilding financial clarity.
Federal Child Support Calculator
Government of Canada lookup tool — find official child support amounts based on income and number of children.
Visit ResourceMySupportCalculator
Free Canadian calculator for child and spousal support estimates — quick, clear, no sign-up required.
Visit ResourceBC Family Maintenance Enforcement
Free provincial service that helps collect and enforce child and spousal support payments in BC.
Visit ResourceCredit Counselling Society
Free, confidential financial counselling and debt support — non-profit, judgment-free guidance for Canadians.
Visit ResourceCanada Mortgage & Housing
National housing resources, calculators, and guidance to help you plan your next living arrangement.
Visit ResourceProsper Canada
National non-profit offering free financial literacy tools for Canadians at every income level.
Visit ResourceGovernment of Canada Benefits Finder
Quick, anonymous tool to discover federal and provincial benefits you may qualify for during life transitions.
Visit ResourceMoney Coaches Canada
Independent, fee-for-service Canadian money coaches — supportive financial guidance without product sales.
Visit ResourceYNAB (You Need A Budget)
A practical budgeting app built on calm, intentional money habits — helpful for rebuilding financial clarity.
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Mental Health & Emotional Support
Steady support for the inner work
Counselling directories, books, and podcasts for processing, healing, and finding ground during change.
Psychology Today Canada
Therapist directory — search by location, specialty (separation, divorce, family transition), and approach.
Visit ResourceCanadian Counselling Association
Directory of registered counsellors and psychotherapists across Canada.
Visit ResourceWellin5
Online counselling — often more affordable than in-person, with flexible scheduling.
Visit ResourceKelty Mental Health
Free BC resources for child and youth mental health — practical guidance for parents during difficult transitions.
Visit ResourceFoundry BC
Free mental health and wellness support for young people aged 12–24 across British Columbia.
Visit ResourceSet Boundaries, Find Peace
Nedra Glover Tawwab's practical guide to setting healthy boundaries without guilt.
Find the BookThe Body Keeps the Score
Bessel van der Kolk on how trauma lives in the body — and how steady healing happens.
Find the BookWe Can Do Hard Things Podcast
Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach & Amanda Doyle on the messy, real, beautiful parts of being human.
ListenUnlocking Us with Brené Brown
Honest conversations on courage, vulnerability, and the messy work of being human.
ListenOn Purpose with Jay Shetty
Calm, grounded conversations on healing, mindfulness, and reconnecting with what matters.
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British Columbia & Canada
Local services and government supports
Trusted Canadian-specific resources for separation, family justice, and community support.
BC Family Justice Services
Free help from BC family justice counsellors for parenting plans, support, and agreements.
Visit ResourceProvincial Court Family Guides
BC court guides written in plain language for self-represented parents navigating family matters.
Visit ResourceCollaborative Divorce BC
Find collaborative professionals committed to respectful, out-of-court separation in British Columbia.
Visit ResourceBC Parenting Coordinators Roster
Find qualified parenting coordinators who help separated parents resolve ongoing disputes outside of court.
Visit ResourceFamily Mediation Canada
National directory and standards for family mediators across the country.
Visit ResourceCanadian Bar Association — Family Law
Plain-language Canadian family law resources, lawyer directories, and legal information.
Visit ResourceJustice Education Society
Free, plain-language legal education and self-help resources for families navigating BC's justice system.
Visit ResourceDial-A-Law BC
Free, plain-language legal information by phone or online — calm answers to common legal questions.
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Crisis & Safety Support
If you or someone you love is at risk
If there are concerns about safety, family violence, coercive control, or your own well-being — please reach out. You don't have to navigate this alone.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. The resources below provide free, confidential support 24/7 across Canada.
9-8-8 Suicide Crisis Helpline
Free, 24/7, confidential support for anyone thinking about suicide or worried about someone they love. Call or text 9-8-8.
Visit 988.caVictimLink BC
24/7 confidential, multilingual support and information for victims of family and sexual violence in BC. Call 1-800-563-0808.
Visit ResourceBattered Women's Support Services
BC-based support, advocacy, and counselling for women experiencing violence — including legal advocacy. Crisis line: 1-855-687-1868.
Visit ResourceKids Help Phone
Free, 24/7 support for young people across Canada — call, text, or chat. Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868.
Visit ResourceHope for Wellness Helpline
Free, 24/7 culturally-informed counselling for Indigenous peoples across Canada. Available in English, French, Cree, Ojibway, and Inuktitut. Call 1-855-242-3310.
Visit ResourceEnding Violence Association of BC
Connect with anti-violence programs and trained advocates across British Columbia.
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